How often to you physically see your goals? Do you talk about them openly? Are they written down on the fridge, on your phone, on the dash of your car? Goal setting is overlooked because it is stereotyped as cheesy, unnecessary or narcissistic. Having clear cut goals is absolutely necessary to achieving what you want in life. Without no endpoint there is no plan to get there. Take for instance the NCAA National Championship or the NFL Superbowl. The goal at the beginning of the season is not simply to do well or win a few games, it is to win the biggest game in their respective league, which takes consistency and discipline. A plan is needed to break down the steps of the game. Strategy is created to overcome obstacles and even use trick plays in desperation moments. The same goes for life. A plan must be created that allows for day to day and week to week achievements. This allows us to break down our overwhelmingly large goals and take them a step at a time. The “trick play” is the ability to be fluid in our daily lives and maneuver in the event that life throws a curveball to which we can side step or defeat without losing site or progress.
Have your goals in front of you throughout the day. I have my goals written on my refrigerator, in the car, on my phone and on my laptop. They are constantly in my face, which makes it extremely easy to keep them in mind without losing focus on what I’m after. Even if I am not actively reading them they are being seen and becoming a part of my subconscious thoughts. Too many people lose sight of their goals and spend days or weeks on end with no real accomplishments towards the end goal. It is easy to get off track or delay doing the work that is necessary to gaining progress. In addition to having them placed around my living spaces, I take the time weekly to write them down in a journal, and then immediately reread them as a means to establishing them as a part of my being. By rereading them you are creating positive affirmations, which creates confidence and gives you the internal power and drive to keep moving forward. There will be days where you wake up and your life feels overwhelming and the thought of obtaining a goal impossible, but having them in front of you and imprinted in your thoughts via previous affirmations makes it easier to set aside the negative thoughts and continue through on your journey to personal success.
Talk about your goals openly. When in conversation with friends and family avoid hiding your thoughts and inspirations. Be bold and open about what it is you want in life. Some people will feel as though they’re being selfish in talking about their goals, but the reality is the person you are talking to has goals that they’re afraid of sharing as well. Goals and the human psyche can be tricky beasts. People fear sharing their goals because they will label themselves as failures if not achieved. However, the great part about expressing them is that you are subconsciously holding yourself accountable to those goals. When you tell someone that you would like to lose 30 pounds in the next 6 months, make enough money to buy a new car in the next year, or spend more quality time with friends and family you are metaphorically writing down your goals to this person. You are reaffirming what your goals are and the conversation typically leads into how you will achieve them.
Allow your goals to change and be fluid in life. By writing and rethinking your goals weekly it is possible that a goal of thought may change slightly, and this is a good thing. Transform and adapt to your newly modified goal, just be conscious not to downgrade your goals. Luckily 2018 is only just beginning but a lot of you have large goals. Keep them in front of you and plan and adapt to reach them!